Sex is human nature, we all do it, and although as great as it seems there are times when we can’t seem to get it up, yes we’re talking about penis. Some might ridicule you, or you might lose your self-confidence due to your problems, but worry no further as we’re going to help you with your problem. In this article we’re going to list some tips on how to increase your libido, so make sure to read this article in case you want to spice up your sex life and your confidence as well.
Try Something New
In case you’re always doing the same thing, that may be the cause of your erectile dysfunction. Try new things in bed with your partner, be it foreplay, roleplay, with toys or many more, or perhaps you can fulfill your fantasy of doing something, keep exploring. If you don’t have a sex partner, then consider getting into a community or dating to get one, as lack of sexual activities might be the reason why you can’t increase your libido.
Change your Diet
Realize that it’s not always having sex or trying something new, sometimes your diet might contribute to your libido as well, try to write down what you usually eat, and perhaps you might have to add or subtract something from the list. Our tip is to eat healthy foods such as herbs, fruits, and vegetables and to reduce your fast food intake, do not worry though, dark chocolate is proven to help with libido, so one cube a day is worth the try.
We dread the word, but it is proven to help with increasing your libido. You don’t have to be a bodybuilder or something, all you need is a short exercise, at least to get the blood flowing in your body. If you don’t know how long you should exercise, we recommend at least fifteen minutes of jogging or half an hour of walking.
Consult to a Doctor
If you’ve tried all the tips that we’ve listed, but nothing worked, consider consulting with a doctor or a therapist as it’s not something to be ashamed of. Your doctor might help with therapy or prescribe you with drugs on the safest amount, and it might be something you need. This way is much safer than you trying different drugs without consulting it to a professional.…
Looking for sex partner requires a delicate approach. You want to keep a distance in the relationship, but at the same time, you want to get intimate.
Know your fantasy
Your action to find a sex partner must have come from your sexual fantasy. If you are looking for warm love, a partner that will look after for you when you are down, what you seek is a lover. Know your sexual fantasy very well, and more importantly, think how you are going to tell your potential sex partner about it.
Maintain neutral look when you first meet your date. Even if what you seek is a sexual encounter, avoid vulgar approach. Prefer subtle words, but somehow still manage to refer to your fantasy. For example, if your thing is BDSM, try to ask her if she doesn’t mind a little pain during the intercourse. Gradually open your kinky minds, and let your partner have the chance to speak their mind. Do not be the only person who speaks during the conversation.
If you want to ask her to do it in an open place, convince her first that you know some safe place. Dogging gold coast, at a public park, or in a car during traffic; are all ideas that you may get in mind, but unfold them gradually. One success leads to another. Pick the safest open place first and prove to your partner that you can handle things.
Explain the boundary
Separating feelings and sexual urge may get complicated. You or your potential partner can fall in love in the future. Tell him/her that you are open to the idea (you should), but what you need for now is a different thing. You have your reasons, and your date deserves the same chance.
Make sure to be clear from the very beginning with what you want. You do not need to go into details about your reasons, though. As soon as your date shows disagreement or a sign of being condescending to you, go for another one. Do not bother to adjust yourself at this stage. It is just either you match with your date or not. Bear in mind again, you go on a date for the practical purpose only, and not looking for wife/husband.
Gentle first, rough later
The sub-title is figuratively speaking, of course. Always ask for your partner’s consent before doing anything ‘creative,’ or ‘rough.’ The worst that can happen in ‘sexual partnership’ is that you bump into a scammer. He/she will use anything that is different from your agreed terms to be against you. That choke-mark for wild sex you both have done with consent, in the previous night, can turn into a proof of sexual assault. Make sure you know your partner pretty well first before advancing further.…